Loving what is ❤️

Dear

What if you are perfect as you are?

What if there is nothing you should or shouldn’t be?
Many self-development programs set “change” as a goal: the new and improved you.

I’m proposing the possibility that you’re perfect as you are. And I’m perfect as I am. That none of us needs to be any different than what we are.

Radical Honesty is a lot about owning and accepting who you are and being honest about the qualities we like about ourselves and being honest about the qualities we judge ourselves for.

I think a great power exists in you expressing out loud your anger, jealousy, sadness, fear, shame, embarrassment or a desire to control others. These things are parts of you and they are not you.

The more we own the “unpleasant” side of ourselves, the shadow side, the less those qualities define who we are.

So, I’m inviting you to consider the possibility that to be happier you don’t need to be any different.

And every moment you share something vulnerable about yourself with others you will feel more love and appreciation towards yourself. And, most likely, others will love you more. ❤️

I have seen so many times how relieved people respond when they hear that they don’t need to be any different. And I remind myself that I don’t need to be any different, either.

By showing your vulnerability, you give a gift to others and to yourself.
And by doing so, you also make an invitation to the people around you to follow the path of honesty and see how we don’t lose by showing ourselves—that we actually all win.

Related to the theme of this week you might like this video How to Be Honest With Yourself

What is something you struggle to show others about yourself?
What about doing it anyway?

Do you judge yourself more harshly than others?
By when will you stop that shit?

Love,
Tuulia & Pete

PS:
For the third time we are organizing Honesty & Conscious Touch retreat with lovely Michael

❤️ How does truth telling feel in your body?
❤️ Do you want to express yourself fully?

This retreat is for you if:

・you yearn deeper love, connection & intimacy

・you want to feel fully alive, vibrant, expansive and invite more courage, joy, sensuality, trust and love for life and people

・you want to experience more freedom in your life

・you are longing for a deeper acceptance of yourself, to feel more complete, to let go of guilt and shame and step into creating the deep intimacy

・you desire to learn the art of asking for what you want

Read more and sign up 🙂

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